All Is Well and Being Clear!

In this post I simply aim to share a thought about things that can and do occur in our daily lives that can cross apply to ourselves and our relationships. Embedded in this scenario description you will no doubt see that I am a proponent of relationship coaching. If you notice any similarity or relatedness in/to this kind of situation in your own life and desire to have some clarity or a new response or actions that would be helpful for you in your life, get in touch with me and lets begin to make a path of clear intention towards the love of your life.
Here is one analogy:
As you drive down the road one day you hear a minor clunking in the front end of your car. The first couple of times you hear it you kind of write it off as nothing but in your heart you know that something is happening and that it can't or you shouldn't really be avoided. Then, within a couple of weeks, it becomes particularly more noticeable when you hit a pot hole or bumps in the road. As time continues on it gets louder and actually a lot more annoying, eventually getting to the point where you just can't avoid it any longer. So you decide to call some friends and find out who they recommend you should take it to for some troubleshooting and guidance about what may be going on and what can be done to correct it. Taking their advice you set up an appointment and arrive at the mechanics shop on the agreed upon day. S/he spends a bit of time asking you questions and then inspecting the underside of the car and the suspected components. When the review is complete s/he tells you the most likely causes and suggests the repairs necessary to get you back on the road, whole and complete.
Now, you realize that there is some cost involved in the suggested procedures and your not sure if you want to make the investment required at this time to do what was said and perhaps a second opinion may be in order. After a couple of more questions of the mechanic you decide to not make a move right now based on the probability that nothing major is likely to happen if you keep on keeping on and do nothing for the time being. This will also give you some time to consider your options.

Your busy in your life and some more time slips by regarding doing anything about your front end issue. In fact you have almost gotten to the point where you don't hear it anymore because you have become so accustomed to the racket that is now vying for your attention . Before you know it or ever got to the suggested repairs/adjustments you find yourself broken down on the side of the road many miles from home. Your wheel, tire and a few other compnents have been sheered from the axle and have gone on down the embankment without you as your car kneels on the side of the road as if one of its legs has been kicked out from underneath it.
It is too late to wonder why you didn't decide to do what was suggested before, now you have an immediate and larger issue at hand that must be dealt with. Of course, you could just borrow someone else's car for a while or take the bus or a cab to get where you need to go and not do the now required major work. But, this time, fortunately, you see a pattern.
The delaying of the inevitable, in your life, has again exponentially increased the size of the issue and will obviously costs you more than you were originally wanting/willing to pay. So, this time, you make the decision to not wait any longer and get the work done right now. Not only that but, right here and now, you vow to make this issue right and to use your new found stand, dermination and new process as a catalyst and you commit to stop avoiding the sounds and signs that are sent to let you know when something needs your attention in the future from this point forward.
You get your car repaired and further more after some discussions with your mechanic choose to set up a timely maintenance plan that includes a schedule of future appointments to have your vehicle regularly inspected and adjusted to make certain that things run well and smoothly from this point forward. This new methodology allows you to see things differently and to keep yourself on track and free from major headaches in the future. In fact this self established program has been so inspirational and successful that you have even applied it in different areas of your life and find that all things seem to be flowing like never before. As a result of things going so smoothly you have almost miraculously found free time to do some of the other really great things that you had also been putting off for lack of time and resources.
A small adjustment in how you now handle a few smaller things in your life and what you, intentionally, do with your time have had a profound impact on your whole life. You find yourself happier and easier going and things seem to come to you with ease that you couldn't even have imagined were possible before. You feel great and as if life is going your way and you decide that this is only the beginning.
This can be you and your life. call me at 860-209-9254 and lets create your personal mission together for the relational and life success that is yours for the asking.