Friday, February 26, 2010

A Favorite Love Song - Hope you enjoy it today!

Simply Click on the post title above and listen to; Foreigner - Waiting for a girl like you

The Miracle of Connection

Hi all,
Please click on (or cut and paste in your address bar) the link below and you will be taken to my Relationship Coaching Institute page where you can listen to these seminars that will allow you to enhance your experience in your relationships.
You can also download them as an mp3.
They are worth while and powerful.

Please enjoy the seminar presentations, your relationships and your life!


http://www.relationshipcoachinginstitute.com/miracleofconnection.html

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

An "Age Preferences Of Partners" Article

Here's an interesting link on Partner Age Preferences



http://www.readwriteweb.com/archives/old_guys_dig_young_women_other_creepy_facts_from_o.php?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+readwriteweb+(ReadWriteWeb)

Living Together, "Trying it on to see if it fits"

Check out this link to read the full article!
Copy and paste this link below into your browser address bar!

http://health.howstuffworks.com/living-together-before-marriage.htm#

Edmonds, Molly. "Does living together before marriage lead to divorce?." 19 January 2010. HowStuffWorks.com. 24 February 2010.

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

The Greatest Accomplishment of All

The only truly worthwhile "accomplishment" -- the one action that stands the test of passing time -- is the interior work we do that allows "Source" to accomplish "Its" task in our soul.

adapted from Guy Finelys Life Lessons Newsletter

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Keep On Loving You Cuz Your Some Kinda Wonderful

http://www.tsrocks.com/s/steel_magnolia_texts/keep_on_lovin_you.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r20j4P4GmJU

Only Love

"There are four questions of value in life...
What is sacred?
Of what is the spirit made?
What is worth living for,
and what is worth dying for?
The answer to each is the same.
Only love.”

Don Juan deMarco (1995)"

Thursday, February 18, 2010

Personal Liberation - Seven Things You Can Do Today

From Guy Finley's Newsletter

7 Simple Practices to Liberate Your Self Today
  • In one encounter, where you're sure you're right, let someone else have the last word.
  • Go through one agitating life-situation without saying, or doing, anything to try and change it.
  • Make one wish for something or someone besides yourself.
  • Face one fear until you see it fade away.
  • Notice and then refuse one urge to spread any form of gossip or gloom.
  • Catch and swallow one complaint without letting others know you're struggling to keep something down.
  • Consciously surrender one sad, hostile, anxious, or defeated feeling.

And I would like to add a personal favorite as the eighth thing you can do all day long today

  • Be aware and take note of where you are feeling joyous about anything, every time you experience it. If you are not feeling joyous, see if you can go in and find the joy in a situation, person or thing that you encounter today. Write them down for today and review this list later tonight.

Friday, February 12, 2010

Should We Live Together??

A question and response directed toward someone who is considering a life/relationship shift!

My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year anda half. We’re both in our late twenties. We’ve talkedabout marriage, however it’s not on our top 10 list rightnow and neither of us is quite ready for that.
We each have separate living arrangements. He owns a homeand I live in an apartment. We live about 10 miles apart. We’ve been talking about living together. It woulddefinitely be easier and would save a lot of time and money.Also, it would probably give us some idea as to how itmight work out if we married later. Before I make anydecisions to move forward with this, I would like to getsome advice – pros and cons. Is it a good idea to “testdrive” a relationship like this? I think my biggestconcerns are the “cons” – why you might think thiswould be a bad idea. What do you think?
Erin in Englewood


Hi Erin,
I personally, really do not think that living together is a bad idea prior to marriage!
However, I do believe that you should have an arrangement in place to assist you both with this transition and to increase the likely hood for your success in this level of commitment and beyond.
I hear that this is possibly the person that you eventually want to marry and spend your life with and that this is a “test run” toward that prospect. You’re obviously wise to request and consider advice from others prior to making this move. Congratulations, this is a phenomenal way to approach this matter! This could indicate several things that you are thinking about and I wonder what your boyfriend is thinking too! Please, do yourselves the favor of doing the next right thing for your relationship. Find a coach that can work with both of you, together, to develop a success strategy right now, at this very stage, prior to moving in together. The exploration between you both and your coach will allow you the opportunity to construct a solid foundation upon which you can build a most intimate, life long, love affair.
Bill Paglia-Scheff
1extraordinarycoach@gmail.com
extraordinaryrelationship.blogspot.com
860-209-9254

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Rampage of Well Being!! A must Listen!

http://www.abraham-hicks.com/lawofattractionsource/rampage.php

Abraham Hicks - Conflicting Desires???

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p6_xSIHlb90&feature=PlayList&p=A896AFECAFDCA53B&index=20

Rampage of Love - Abraham Hicks

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3E_amc3odoU&feature=PlayList&p=A896AFECAFDCA53B&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=16

All Is Well and Being Clear!

In this post I simply aim to share a thought about things that can and do occur in our daily lives that can cross apply to ourselves and our relationships. Embedded in this scenario description you will no doubt see that I am a proponent of relationship coaching. If you notice any similarity or relatedness in/to this kind of situation in your own life and desire to have some clarity or a new response or actions that would be helpful for you in your life, get in touch with me and lets begin to make a path of clear intention towards the love of your life.
Here is one analogy:
As you drive down the road one day you hear a minor clunking in the front end of your car. The first couple of times you hear it you kind of write it off as nothing but in your heart you know that something is happening and that it can't or you shouldn't really be avoided. Then, within a couple of weeks, it becomes particularly more noticeable when you hit a pot hole or bumps in the road. As time continues on it gets louder and actually a lot more annoying, eventually getting to the point where you just can't avoid it any longer. So you decide to call some friends and find out who they recommend you should take it to for some troubleshooting and guidance about what may be going on and what can be done to correct it. Taking their advice you set up an appointment and arrive at the mechanics shop on the agreed upon day. S/he spends a bit of time asking you questions and then inspecting the underside of the car and the suspected components. When the review is complete s/he tells you the most likely causes and suggests the repairs necessary to get you back on the road, whole and complete.
Now, you realize that there is some cost involved in the suggested procedures and your not sure if you want to make the investment required at this time to do what was said and perhaps a second opinion may be in order. After a couple of more questions of the mechanic you decide to not make a move right now based on the probability that nothing major is likely to happen if you keep on keeping on and do nothing for the time being. This will also give you some time to consider your options.

Your busy in your life and some more time slips by regarding doing anything about your front end issue. In fact you have almost gotten to the point where you don't hear it anymore because you have become so accustomed to the racket that is now vying for your attention . Before you know it or ever got to the suggested repairs/adjustments you find yourself broken down on the side of the road many miles from home. Your wheel, tire and a few other compnents have been sheered from the axle and have gone on down the embankment without you as your car kneels on the side of the road as if one of its legs has been kicked out from underneath it.
It is too late to wonder why you didn't decide to do what was suggested before, now you have an immediate and larger issue at hand that must be dealt with. Of course, you could just borrow someone else's car for a while or take the bus or a cab to get where you need to go and not do the now required major work. But, this time, fortunately, you see a pattern.
The delaying of the inevitable, in your life, has again exponentially increased the size of the issue and will obviously costs you more than you were originally wanting/willing to pay. So, this time, you make the decision to not wait any longer and get the work done right now. Not only that but, right here and now, you vow to make this issue right and to use your new found stand, dermination and new process as a catalyst and you commit to stop avoiding the sounds and signs that are sent to let you know when something needs your attention in the future from this point forward.
You get your car repaired and further more after some discussions with your mechanic choose to set up a timely maintenance plan that includes a schedule of future appointments to have your vehicle regularly inspected and adjusted to make certain that things run well and smoothly from this point forward. This new methodology allows you to see things differently and to keep yourself on track and free from major headaches in the future. In fact this self established program has been so inspirational and successful that you have even applied it in different areas of your life and find that all things seem to be flowing like never before. As a result of things going so smoothly you have almost miraculously found free time to do some of the other really great things that you had also been putting off for lack of time and resources.
A small adjustment in how you now handle a few smaller things in your life and what you, intentionally, do with your time have had a profound impact on your whole life. You find yourself happier and easier going and things seem to come to you with ease that you couldn't even have imagined were possible before. You feel great and as if life is going your way and you decide that this is only the beginning.
This can be you and your life. call me at 860-209-9254 and lets create your personal mission together for the relational and life success that is yours for the asking.